What Is Love? ("Baby dont hurt me. Dont hurt me. No more")

Photo by Ludovica Sorrentino

As for the title of this post, I couldnt help myself. On a slightly more serious note, this post is a very important one. Your life may even depend on it.

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Love.

It is a strange word, used in many different ways, to describe many different things. People spend their lives looking for it....externally. Through the means of someone else.

Whenever they land on love, they want to trap it. They want to hold it. To keep it. To never let it slip away.

But, is this love? Or is it a way to fill a hole?(no pun intended) To be "completed" is another socially popular way to describe it. 

"Baby you complete me."

Love, in its purest and most powerful form, is simply a vibration. Its a texture, that is highly intoxicating. Life, when you are truly in it, is highly intoxicating. Stumbling around drunk on life is my chosen fortay.

LOVE, just so happens to be the most life affirming and supporting energetic frequency there is.

Love is everything. Everything that lives and breathes is love. It is a result of it. You are love.

When we look around, currently, the lack of love is overwhelmingly apparent on this planet/dimension/plane. People are sick, tired, depressed, confused, and attempting to win. To win at that which we already are. I know, the irony huh?

People move around around carrying frequencies of rage, hatred, anger, frustration, shame and feeling hard done by. Humans have been conditioned to prove themselves. To prove themselves based on the measuring system of an absurd unconsciousness. An absurd retardation.

These foundational default frequencies which humans carry around all day everyday(afraid to feel, face, process, and let go of)...are killing us. These frequencies have possessed pretty much every culture and enviornment, in some way or another.

Walking around with anger, or hatred bubbling in you, is probably the fastest way to the grave. It´s actively carrying a death wish.

"I want to live for ever, yet I hate myself" feels to be the underlying global mantra of civilisation. Not because we really hate ourselves. No child hates him/her-self. Hatred is taught, in every case. It is not a natural and easy to embody frequency. It hurts and destroys the carrier. 

The above emotions and energetic frequencies I mention are deeply corrosive to our physical bodies. We rot away from the most foundational and energetic level, right through to the physical.

Now, what I am NOT asking, is for you to completely avoid these emotions and ways of being. This is even more dangerous. It is rifely popular within the self development and spiritual ´conscious communities´. Tossing away intelligence in exchange for ´positivity´.

I never recommend anyone to be positive. I invite people to be real, critically observant, and intelligent. From this place positivity emerges in its most natural form. It shines bright, by default.

Ignoring what is eating you alive, wont slow it down. In fact it will just speed up under your avoidance. 

Developing a loving/patient awareness towards all of your pain and suffering is the most powerful thing one can do, to truly heal, coming back to your default state of love embodied. Take your time, and start to demonstrate behaviours and actions, that are in alignment with you, loving the shit out of yourself. Literally. Loving the garbage out of yourself.

Everyone has been mishandled in different capacities. Therefor, everyones journey and experience of self will be innately different. All you need is patience. Patience is almost like the nutrients of love. A deeply patient human, can only be such a way, due to the overwhelming amount of love which is powering them forward.

Be patient for your process, without comparing yourself to anyone else.

Love, is life.

For the new-age people: The frequency of love is similar to snorting 123,000 lines of kale juice in 1.4 milliseconds.(i couldnt resist it)

Back to the deeper essence of love...

Somewhere along the way, the frequency of love was labelled. It was stolen from us. Then, it was rationed back to us in miniscule amounts. Just enough to keep us alive and breathing in our own desparate madness.

Suddenly, our free flowing energy got halted. Our expression got shamed and silenced. Our nature became contorted and perverted. At this point, we became slaves to the individuals needing to control us.

These days, to experience love, you are told you must be IN love, with another human. Or another device. Or another location. Or another idea. Or another rubber sex doll.

THIS IS NOT LOVE!

YOU are love. The more you come back to you, the more you come back to your nature. Love!

Do not let the trickery prevail. do not allow the mediocre conditioning steal you from yourself. Come back to reclaiming YOU.

Love is your essence. It is available to you in an empty room, once you can truly be in that room. But in order for you to truly be in that room uninhibited and unimcumbured, you may have to come up against all the lies that have been put into you, telling you otherwise. Telling you how alone you are. How you need this and that in order to feel love.

Thats like telling a fish it must eat some fish in order to feel fish. (i realise my metaphors are getting progressively more shit. But please, patience, remember)

The mind is fragile. If you move around unconscious, your mind is up for grabs. YOU are up for grabs. An unconscious person will believe anything you tell their mind, once you are convincing enough, and they are desperate and confused enough.​

The point of this post is to invite you to wake up and begin DIRECTING your awareness internally, to start feeling love moving through you. Once you feel this, you can watch how it begins to transform your entire beingness. Watch how you can little by little, start to reclaim YOUR power, which just so happens to be the universal power.

Having a profound felt-sense of not needing anyone or anything to bring to you the love you seek, is the single most freeing experience and realisation you will ever come upon.

...but here comes the next issue. When someone touches upon their deepest freedom, they may have to ask..."shit, do i really want this?".

Much love,
​Chris