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The Problem With Women Coaching Men

3/7/2019

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Many of the women who come to see me, after their re-activation and opening session, will ask me how they can assist their man in reconnecting to his potency, masculine energy, and power. My response is always the same… ​
”Send him to me. You, stay focused on your own process of integration and softening. He needs to hear some things about himself, before he can even begin to hear you.” 

In the current “everybodys a coach” times, I see many women attempting to work with men, in order to assist him in how to be a more powerful man…while being totally starved in her own intimate relatings. Attempting to build a full man, without ever having met one. 

While beautiful in its intention, she usually just ends up programming him from all of the places within herself which are unclear, childish, & starved… continuing the mother-child dynamic. In relationships, this type of engagement usually results in the woman eventually losing attraction towards him, as he becomes more feminised...as she becomes fatigued from being overly masculinised.

Lets be clear…A woman has absolutely NO clue what it takes to be a man in this life & never will, she only knows how she responds to one…which usually cannot even be clearly verbalised, as its not of the mind. Its of the body. She feels it.

When a woman attempts to direct a man in how to be a man, she must immediately get up and disconnect from her own receptive nature, and in turn…misses the deliciousness of being female.

The best assistance a woman can offer a man is via her response to him, once she remains fully transparent and authentic, without performance.  This is one of the most beautiful powers of a woman. She is a constant mirror, if she stays clean and courageous enough.

For a male to become an intelligent and powerful man of integrity & potency…he MUST be communicated to BY A MAN OF POWER. A man of knowing. A man of understanding. A man of clarity. A king in his kingdom!

The energetic transmission/frequency is what is needed to teach the man, from king to king. Its a deep process!

Of course, women can play a substantial role in the building of men. It involves unconditional love, commitment to her own female development, and the loud request for him to stand up tall and FIGURE IT THE FUCK OUT! If you treat him like a child…he stays a child. And right now on the planet most of the men are walking around in shitty unaccountable diapers. It stinks out here!

In reality guys, a woman doesn’t want to have to teach you anything. She wants you to have already figured it out, so she can put the workbook down, and enjoy all of the gifts that come with being a woman. So she can enjoy loving you magnificently.

You can dislike this statement as much as you want, and sulk about how unfair it is…but life doesnt give a shit…its busy, being life. You either get on board and do your work, or suffer the consequences...

Much love,
Chris

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2 Comments
Jen Wilcher
3/13/2019 03:08:13 am

Completely agree. In fact, this reminds me of another article I read about whether women have a place in men's work or not, which basically said pretty much the same thing: that us women do have a place in men's work, but it might not be the place most women think it is given the messages modern society is trying to feed us.

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Arienne van der Hilst
3/25/2019 07:43:37 am

Hi dear Chris I love your work and it rings truth to me in many ways can you expand more about why you feel a woman cannot coach an man but a man can coach a woman in spiritual work. Would be lovely if you talk more about it in a video

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