THE ALIGNED COCK: Relating 101

- "Chris, why do women avoid receiving me and acting like they didnt see me? Why are they always so bitchy with me? Im always going out of my way to compliment her - and nothing!"

Easy - Because most compliments that a woman has received from men in her life, have in no way been a gift of his truth. Instead the compliment has been accompanied by some form of conditions and expectations he placed upon her.

Because of this, she now has a deep distrust and distain for receiving maleness in most forms.

There is HUGE distrust, and rightly so!

Just look at your above statement - drenched in expectations for you "going out of your way".

No woman wants you to "go out of your way" to do fucking anything. Sit back down and re-check yourself.

What are you even bringing that is worth a woman opening her heart and body to?

Are you safe within your potency? Or are you just utterly confused, wanting to get your pee-pee wet? Flailing around with a loaded gun.

Men...a woman doesnt owe you shit!

Regardless of how much you compromise yourself, and "go out of your way" for her. She is not mommy.

The sooner you can remove this assumption from your mind, the cleaner and more integral you can show up with her. Without compromise. Aligned.

Women spend much of their lives getting attention from men, who want her for something pretty short-lived and empty, where she is never truly met. She becomes nothing more than a projection of his own brainwashed fantasies - And man asks why she has to be such a "bitch"?

She longs to be touched at the heart level - by something worth laying down for. Because through heart is how she begins to receive you sensually & sexually.

Your desire to cum in her, is not really worth it for the most part, unless she too is functioning from a place of total dysfunction.

Unfortunately, in many cases, she longs for connection and touch so much, that she compromises herself, and continuously allows these types of empty scenarios repeat themselves. Over & over - further distain.

Men...she FEELS your empty stares piercing through her like a starving vampire, without any love, support or substance underneath it. Just lust, without ever tuning into her. She feels threatened and deeply uneasy. Dont allow her poise fool you, for she has carved that over the years as her shield.

She FEELS your mission, and it creates much tension and resistance in her being.

This is totally unsafe for her, as Its straight-up energetic rape.

Man must learn how to allow and support beauty in reigning free, without burning it to the ground, because of his own distortion around it.

The reason men relate to women this way, is not because he is bad...because he is not.

It is due to societal conditioning around masculinity, and lack of intelligent male guidance - Resulting in an underdeveloped male, who is afraid of his own femininity, and therefore his healthy masculine.

It makes it excruciatingly uncomfortable and threatening for him to feel with her. But he still wants her. Thats a large internal conflict. Detachment and avoidance is his pill.

So rather than being courageous enough to meet her right down next to the earth, - he shuts himself down, and projects all of his own lacking onto her, with his mission to conquer and consume.

What woman rarely gets to feel is UNCONDITIONAL lovingness from male energy.

Women are really being starved of this energy, and its having dire consequences on her levels of health and abundance. I see the results of this malnourishment daily, in my work with women.

What is needed from mans side? - For him to figure out how to be there in a way which is not about gaining something, nor is it about him having to sacrifice or reject something within himself. Its about being there to simply love on her, just to love on her, without expectations.

Its about Including everything, the light and the dark...together.

This practice is where you will not only support and awaken her power...but also your own!

It will be some of the deepest male spiritual work you will ever do.

It will crash you up against every last piece of yourself. It will clean you. It will leave you nowhere to run and hide. It will steer you to your god-self. - To learn love, in a male form.

Id like to finish by stating that this post is in no way to berate or judge you, brothers. This is to educate you. To empower you. To wake you the fuck up, to your own magnificent "on purpose-ness" which you carry.

As men, it is important we have a clear and intelligent understanding on how to navigate our life & kingdom, via integrity.

This post is an invitation, to finally drop the self-avoidance and lift your head up, tears and all. To take full ownership of your fears and sensitivities. To accept where you stand here today, and make a promise to yourself...that you will stand firm for your truth, authenticity, and your love as a man.(and all the ways you are terrified of it.)

That you will be honest. That you will learn how to love yourself in all of its most subtle forms - Which will show you how to love others.

I want to clarify that all the urges, desires, and lustings which you feel is NOT bad. It is such a beautiful and powerful part of man. What needs to change is how we relate with it, express it, and share it. Because right now, it is more than likely using & crippling you.

A man who has learned to align his cock with lovingness, gets to experience total abundance in his power in this life...governed by an integral code much bigger than just him.

Men, your maturation is needed now, more than ever.
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Much love, I got you!
Chris Bale