The following is a short extract taken from an interview, with energy worker and mentor, Chris Bale.
“I hear you speak a lot about women being far more energetically based. Can you say more for men who may be new to all of this, to understand?”
Chris: Well, what men really need to come to understand is that a womans sensual spectrum is of multidimensional capacity, which goes far beyond friction based s€x. He essentially needs to throw away mostly everything that he thinks he knows about women or how she functions. That would be a great start.
Friction is the most minuscule aspect of her capacity. She exists far more in the realm of soul-subtlety; she is frequency based. Through accessing her frequency, she experiences much more pleasure & intimacy as a result. For this reason, it’s of upmost importance that a man understands how to really tune-into her. To sense her.
Without getting too deep, woman is a portal. If she ever happens to experience the other side of this door in s€xual union; from the physical to the cosmic, there is no going back for her. The initiation into cosmic orgasmicness literally changes her entire experience of herself and her life. For this reason, men really need to begin showing up with her in a totally different way. In a way where he is more focused on allowing his depth to pierce her.
There are many delicate and fierce corners of an embodied woman’s being, which long to be played and engaged with. She is a vast universe of artful chaos, dripping in an ever changing sensuality. She has enormous capacity to thrust into the the light, just as quickly as she can plummet into the dark. She requires both to be nourished, and everything
A man of understanding will actively seek out a woman of such capacity, as he knows of the nourishment she blesses his life with. While for the immature/underdeveloped man, this woman tends to trigger and scare the shit out of him.
In many cases he avoids her, as her rapture exposes his sleepiness, uncertainty, and lack of clarity in himself. (Also a gift)
“What kind of blindspots do you see in modern men, that causes difficulty in his relationships with the opposite s€x?”
Chris:...I mean, its quite a big piece, but one thing that is very apparent right off the bat, is his inability to evoke her.
What I mean by that, is a huge part of learning how to love a woman, lays within a mans ability to figure out how to energetically move around her in certain ways, in order to evoke and inspire her femininity and sensuality, in percolating up to the forefront of her being. This understanding can only exist on a foundation of him already knowing himself to a certain degree.
A mans role within the relational dynamic is to initiate a softening and arousal in her being, by how he moves around her. Unfortunately most women are having to turn themselves on in their intimate relationships, as there is very little that is arousing about the modern man.
He tends to be so dysfunctionally feminized in his field that he is energetically neutral. This means his presence can in no way activate her in the way she requires. The work I do with men is all about realigning this frequency, and reconnecting him to his powerful polarity. It’s simple, but it’s not easy. It takes a lot of work, I’ll be honest. But it is so worth it. - The work I do with women, is direct experiential activation of this energy.
“You use the word ‘Evoke’ a lot. Can you speak a little more on this?”
If there is anything I have learned from my work with women (and in my personal relationships), is that she longs to be evoked - giving her body and soul something worth reaching for. Immature masculinity will always be attempting to desperately close the gap as quickly as possible, in his desire to get his s€xual needs met. For this reason, she rarely gets the opportunity to reach for him anymore. He is either chasing after her, or totally avoiding her. Her sensuality exists in-between these poles, and can be contacted via artful presence.
She must have the space to taste its subtly for a moment. To question it, to doubt it, to long for it, to confirm it.
This is when her sensuality raises up to reach for more. And then more. And then more. The nature of her rapture.
A man needs to develop a certain level of mastery with how he touches her physically, and how he touches her energetically, from the other side of the room....or even the other side of the world. He needs to apply acute awareness to how he is being received on the deepest levels of her being, at all times. This is usually the point of verbalization when I lose some men...until they see it demonstrated practically. Then I have his attention.
A mans s€xual intelligence is rooted in his ability to evoke her sensuality, through sensitive understanding of her system, and how he energetically moves around her.
This is where I assist him...
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