Without seeing her, and without her feeling you really tuning into her, she wont ever allow herself to fully unravel in her womanhood with you, as a gift. If you don’t show up...she has nobody to dance with. Nobody to dance for...
If you cannot see her, you cannot know her - If you do not know her, you cannot support her in being every last ounce of who she has come here to be; no ability to assist her in letting go of all of the conditioning which has come in and trampled her heart, womb, and s€x.
If as a man, you have not really done your own clarification work, and you are still paddling in immaturity, you will be deadly to her freedom, regardless of how much you have convinced yourself you love her - As how you’re treating her is actually the opposite of loving someone.
It’s not about what you can share with her, and It is instead about what you feel you can get (and what you feel you NEED) from her. That ain’t love!
This is what brainwashing has convinced you love should look like, and via this brainwashing you further support the societal madness she has been impregnated with. You offer her none of the relief she truly needs from you.
I implore you to stop taking it all so personally, and to do your work inside, so that you can begin to change this. For your own life, and for the lives of whomever you touch.
As a man, your spiritual work involves micro and macro dissecting of your own consciousness, to the deepest levels you can reach, today. Your work involves really seeing the disability in what you have been fed - So that you can return chaos to order. To continuously realign back to truth. Thats what a man does! He keeps the space clear, clean, and established. So his penetration can be focused, deliberate, and for something ultimately greater than his own gain.
If you choose to stay manipulated, you will actually serve to further support the societal madness that she has been impregnated with. Instead of valuing and unleashing her power as a necessity for the development of the collective, you will instead fear woman, and attempt to control her, and to use her up.
Men, so much of your purpose is within the simple (yet rare) ability to see clearly, and to direct that which you see clearly, from a place of embodied intelligence. Allow that to be the core of your offering. Beauty needs a witness.
To finish, If you have absolutely no interest in seeing her, and your only focus is to sexually rub up against her, like a bear on a tree - thats fine, but be clear about this, so she can then be held accountable for her choice to move in that direction with you.
As a man, unclarity is your anti-christ! It will ruin you, and anyone who comes close to you. So get clear, in everything you have the ability to get clear on. Now.
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