How To Impress A Woman - AKA ´Mummy´

Today's inbox question:

"Hey Chris. Luv the work. Can I ask, what are the best qualities a man should have to impress women?
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Today's inbox question:

"Hey Chris. Luv the work. Can I ask, what are the best qualities a man should have to impress women?

My Reply:

I don't know.

Actually let me rephrase...I don't care. 

That's little boys corner. I invite you to feel an urgency to leave mummies validation seeking behind you,  forever. Find it in you and kill it entirely.(the first step is being aware of what a little boy you are being) The desire to impress, and the plague of people pleasing, in most cases, will come directly back to the relationship the young boy has with his mother, and how he is TOLD and INSTRUCTED to be. In the process he never actually finds his own self as a man. He moves through life being guided by whatever flavour of crazy and confused his mother lovingly instilled in him.

A woman cannot show a man how to be a man. Period. But, if she has done her own work, and is walking around on this planet as a true woman, then she will be a deep inspiration, which will trigger the young boy to seek his own manhood when the time arises. She will push him out there, away from the nest, encouragingly and supportively. So the man can fall down as a child, and learn how to pick himself back up as a man. Unfortunately, this ritual is incredibly rare in current society.

Do you still want to impress mummy, and do right by her?


My attention in life, is called for in much more important areas, rather than attempting to impress a loving insanity.

Such as relentlessly being in alignment with myself as a man, by honouring myself and my creator, in order to be here as a fully embodied man. To share truth and clarity on this planet unapologetically, when the status quo is entirely against everything truly being that way.


To have fully embodied women around me(or assisting them in coming to that place), so my mission here is nourished, enriched, and fuelled with a life that I could not touch on without her.


You'll find that being in-tune and in-sync with yourself, will allow you, to continue to lovingly and supportively impress YOURSELF.


But yeah, women seem to enjoy my company for the most part. So maybe there is some guidance in there in some capacity. Examine your priorities. There is a system glitch occurring, somewhere.

A woman wants to experience a man. Most women have never even made contact with a man. Just children. Little boys, masquerading as men. I too was one of these little boys until I began the process of levelling up in my own delusion.


Finally,  give yourself a fucking break man. Start being here for yourself first. Because without actually making contact with yourself, you are pretty useless in every capacity. Like one of those people wearing a tinfoil hat licking strangers windows.


I sincerely hope something I have shared will help, inspire, or guide you down a deeper path of you and life. I wish you a godly magnificence sir. You got this... But only if you really want it.

Chris

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