At first, an unclear man stands very little chance with an embodied feminine creature. He tends to get eaten alive, like a micro-pig. Oink!
But…If he is willing to sacrifice his ego, continuously show up, and allow her to chew on him a little, he begins to develop a strongly defined internal value system, which will assist him in developing a spine.
If you are new on your journey, drop the goal of perfection and immediately accept that you will have to navigate through this initial pain period with the opposite s€x.
Instead of turning away from the feast, step into it, and figure out how to keep your awareness and ease open.
A man who is all about perfection with women, and who hasn’t went through the initial phase of being chewed-on and played-with, by a whole heap of these beautifully fascinating creatures, will never develop the clarity, presence, and footwork he needs, in order to really BE with her in an energetically impactful way.
He will lack presence, backbone, and boundaries; which are gained only by learning to dance with the “playful little brat” that exists within each and every woman.
Only after he has discharged the seriousness he places upon every single word and glance which emminates from her being as something personal, can he truly be free to appreciate, love and support her truest essence.
And just like that, his greatest fear becomes one of his greatest loves. He sees the inherent link between her scowl and her moan. He learns to activate and evoke from a deeply connected place. Never having to leave her in order to “do her”. The dance is invaluable, and it can never be learned anywhere other than the dance itself.
Much Love, Chris
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