A Mans Response To The #metoo Movement

Women. Please. Stop hating on all men. Men are beautiful once fully accountable. Call for their accountability and authenticity. Men can stand firm for you. Men can support and empower you. Men can even assist in protecting you. But for this to happen, we must transition from fear and hate, to love and patience.

I’m not following the media, but I can clearly feel women’s rage and disappointment right now. The hurting. Her unwavering demand to be heard. I see men and women arguing and barking at one another on social media, as if we are on different teams.

Against each other.
The gap widenes.
The genders disgust for one another grows deeper.

I’m not here to discuss the details of the situation as I don’t even know what is unraveling, but if anything should come from this situation, it is men committing to FULL authenticity in all of their relatings with women. Most men lack this aspect entirely, which predisposes much unclarity and grey areas in communication.

Women need to begin listening to their bodies more. She needs to be tuned in, so she’s can immediately leave the company of a male who feels unsafe and unaccountable to her, without feeling the need to make an apology. Women need to forfeit niceties, to remain totally un-compromised in their life, sex, love and safety.

I also realize there are situations which a woman is not allowed just walk out of. Men are saying things like “as a man I can’t even flirt anymore Incase I’m brought up on rape”....seriously? Do you hear the shit falling out of your mouth? Gain some awareness of yourself and the individuals you choose to engage with. A woman who would go all the way in order to fabricate a story of sexual abuse , just to punish you...well that type of an individual, should have seemed slightly off to you immediately. This is not an act just any person can do.

It’s not the time for men’s fear. It’s a time for men’s love. Love will heal the women who have been mishandled and abused. Safe love is what she needs. Be a good man! Be an intelligent man! Stop blaming women for emasculating you, via them standing up against the abuse. Support truth wherever it comes from, man or woman. 

Women. Please. Stop hating on all men. Men are beautiful once fully accountable. Call for their accountability and authenticity. Men can stand firm for you. Men can support and empower you. Men can even assist in protecting you. But for this to happen, we must transition from fear and hate, to love and patience.

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