Women - Give yourself full permission to be totally unaroused by a man. Let the man know how his beingness is impacting you; “love, the way you are being here does not make my heart or vagina want to receive you in any way.”
Women - Give yourself full permission to be totally unaroused by a man.
Give yourself full permission to immediately shut down the intimate moment as soon as you are not feeling it.
Many women have sex without ever truly wanting to - instead she assumes she must, for the partner, the relationship, because he wants it. She begins to actively participate in her own abuse. Because how you ever opened your legs to receive such messiness is beyond any form of intelligence.
Women, Let the man know how his beingness is impacting you; “love, the way you are being here does not make my heart or vagina want to receive you in any way.” He needs to know how the way he is being is impacting you, so he can hopefully look inside more consciously, underneath his ego, to understand and figure it out.
Women say they want a man, but then continue to passively tolerate his childishness, for fear of upsetting him. He needs to see his reflection, accurately, and real, from a place of your divine female lovingness. You not being in ‘the mood’ has very little do with you.
A man who has done his work knows he is entirely responsible for transforming the situation, so that you become naturally aroused. Always stay true to your body, intuition, heart and nature.
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