The following is a short extract taken from a magazine interview, with energy worker and mentor, Chris Bale.
“I hear you speak a lot about a woman being embodied. Can you say more on this for the men?”
Well, what men really need to understand is that an embodied womans sensual spectrum is of multidimensional capacity, which goes far beyond friction based s€x. That is actually the most minuscule aspect of her experience. She exists more-so in the realm of soul-subtlety. She is frequency based. For this reason it’s of upmost importance that a man understands how to really tune-into her. To sense her.
Without getting too deep, woman is a portal. If she ever happens to experience the other side of the door in sexual union; from the physical to the cosmic, there is no going back for her. The initiation into cosmic orgasmicness literally changes her entire experience of herself and her life. So for this reason, the men really need to begin showing up with her in a totally different way. In a way where he is more focused on sensing and piercing her, rather than doing things onto her or getting his needs met.
There are many delicate and fierce corners of an embodied woman’s being, which long to be played and engaged with. She is a vast universe of artful chaos, dripping in an ever changing sensuality. She has enormous capacity to thrust into the the light, just as quickly as she can plummet into the dark. She requires both to be nourished.
A man of consciousness will actively seek out a woman of such capacity, as he knows of the nourishment she blesses his life with. While for the immature/underdeveloped man, this woman tends to trigger and scare the shit out of him. In many cases he avoids her, as her rapture exposes his sleepiness, uncertainty, and lack of clarity in himself. (Also a gift)
“What kind of blindspots do you see in modern man, that causes difficulty in his relationships with the opposite s€x?”
...I mean, there is quite a bit, usually stemming from the same core foundational development issues. But one thing that is very apparent right off the bat, is his inability to evoke her.
What I mean by that, is a huge part of learning how to love a woman, lays within mans ability to figure out how to energetically move around her in certain ways, in order to evoke and inspire her femininity and sensuality, in percolating up to the forefront of her being. Of course this understanding can only exist on a foundation of him already knowing himself to a certain degree.
A mans role within the dynamic is to trigger a softening and arousal in her being, by how he moves around her. Unfortunately most women are having to turn themselves on in their intimate relationships, as their is very little that is arousing about the modern man. He tends to be so dysfunctionally feminized in his field, that he is energetically neutral. This means his presence can in no way activate her in the way she requires. The work I do with men is all about realigning this frequency, and reconnecting him to his powerful polarity. It’s simple, but it’s not easy. It takes a lot of work, I’ll be honest. But it is so worth it. - The work I do with women, is direct experiential activation.
“You use the word ‘Evoke’ a lot. Can you speak a little more on this?”
Firstly, most men I see lack the necessary understanding when it comes to evoking her many different flavors. I did too, for many years. It is a subtle art form which has been lost it seems.
If there is anything I have learned from my work with women (and in my personal relatings), is that she longs to be evoked - giving her body and soul something worth reaching for. The underdeveloped man desperately closes the gap quickly, in his desire to get his sexual needs met. For this reason, she rarely gets the opportunity to reach for him anymore, as he is filling in all the gaps aggressively. He is either chasing after her, or totally avoiding her. Her sensuality exists in between these poles, and can be contacted via presence.
You see, a woman’s being craves to reach for something which she can feel touching her in a beautiful way, but she can’t quite put her finger on it. She must have the space to taste just the tip of it for a moment. To digest it, to question it, to long for it..this is when her sensuality raises up to reach for more. And then more. And then more.
A man needs to develop a certain level of mastery with how he touches her physically, and how he touches her energetically, from the other side of the room....or even the other side of the world. He needs to apply acute awareness to how he is being received on the deepest levels of her being. This is usually the point of verbalization when I lose some men...until they see it practically. Then I have his attention.
A mans sexual intelligence is rooted in his ability to evoke her sensuality, through sensitive understanding of her system, and how he energetically moves around in her presence.
From the sweetest kisses on the nape of her neck, to cosmically fucking her heart open, and everything in between.
full interview coming soon.
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