This, is not aimed at everyone. But, it is aimed at the majority of individuals who live in fantasy land.
The below is not blaming men. Nor is it blaming women. We are all accountable here as a whole. My role is simply to shine the light on unconsciousness as a whole.
The over-feminisation of men has had absolute dire consequences.
A part of the work I do, has been assisting men for many years,(along with women) and also included in that journey has been my own process as a man.
What I am sharing here is a deeply prominent issue that must be realigned if we are to stand a chance as a society.
The moment a man feels he is not allowed to walk around in his own beautiful energy, bad things happen. Everywhere. Which we are seeing clearly in current society.
Women, ask things like “where are the real men gone?”, but then the first chance she gets, she sets rules and attempts to cuts his balls off.
Then, once unconsciously successful in internal castration, she loses her innate attraction for him, as he is no longer what she first met. So she moves on, asks once again “where are all the real men are gone?” and proceeds to cut the next guys balls off, due to her own childish fears. Such as “As long as you eat ice cream at my house, you can’t eat ice cream at anyone else’s house”.
From that point this male who has idiotically agreed to rules, must figure out how he can still be a man, without having everyone know he’s a man. Internal twistedness and external manipulation begins.
In my own experience, most women have never even met a man. This is evident in how fucking uncomfortable she gets as soon as he shows up...actually being a man. Penetrating her with his presence. His brand of love. His clarity. His masculine ownership, and his expectation of her, to be a real woman. She doesn’t even know what the fuck to do with herself.
Women. Let the man BE a man and stop attempting to cut him off from the very energy in him which YOU NEED to be fed as a woman. But that’s if you are willing to actually be a woman in your life. That’s if you are courageous enough. The same goes for men.
These are supremely unconscious behaviours on her part, on societies part, that needs to be recognised if we ever truly want to stand a chance with ourselves.
So much fear from both sides. A light must be shined on it.
It’s similar to saying “I want a dog, but it must act like a cat. But as soon as it meows I’m going to criticise it for not barking like a dog”. Then she ends up utterly miserable and starved of true and healthy masculinity in her life. (This is a two way process and also applies the opposite way around)
In life in general, It is very easy to see the difference in a man who has brought his manhood to women in an authentic male-way over time, sharing his beautiful truth and attraction(suffering countless rejections) compared to a man(boy) who has attempted to tip toe around the mirror which a woman holds so powerfully reflecting him back.
This man attempts perfection, and manipulates himself based on what he thinks women expect of him. In many cases the man had his balls severed by a society who raised him to believe how big, bad and dangerous his free expression is. How bad man is.
In the first man I used as an example, he tossed himself into life and followed his nature courageously. It never felt like rejection to him. It was just women who werent looking for his specific brand at that specific time. This man learns the most valuable lesson of staying in contact with his male energy, while learning to spontaneously dance with the feminine in an unrehearsed way; building his ability to truly sense and feel her energy on the spot.
He develops a penetrating presence in the eye of her storm, And she gets to be seen. She gets to relax. To receive. To show him what love really looks and feels like.
This man comes to proficiency within himself. In life.
The second man, loses all contact with his essence in an attempt to please his mama relationship internally. He never graduates into his power, as he is too ashamed to allow himself be real, for himself first and foremost. He sees male sexuality as something to be toned down and hidden, because of how society has conditioned and dealt with him.
This shame is what the majority of adult men walk around with. So they must place their energy into manipulation and lies. To protect their own fear of self.
These are the males who negatively impact the opening and receptive necessity that exists for the feminine energy. These are the men that say one thing, but do the other. These are the men who countlessly fucked women over.
Women should never follow an idiot. But unfortunately, because of the perpetual childishness that runs rampant in both sexes, they end up finding each other easily.
We need some clarity down here. We need to truly understand how important it is for every individual to give themselves all the permission in the world to be real. To be who they are. To move the way they want to move. And to make no apology for doing so.
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