In this post Chris discusses mentoring a man who spent 3 years attempting to sex himself to happiness. Obviously, he’s more miserable than ever.
Gentlemen, look at a woman not as something to win. Not as something to conquer. Not as something to impress, or buy, or fuck, or pick-up, or gain from. In this process, not only do you mishandle women, but you deeply mishandle yourself.
Try telling a flower how to grow, or how to bloom, or how to open. The flower will wither away and die, and you will be left scratching your head wondering what you did so wrong.
You then decide to have distain towards all other flowers, as your own idiocy made you feel disempowered. “Fuck these flowers brah. Let's go to the gym.” You gave it everything you thought it wanted…and it left you!
Yeah…but what did it need? Did you even care to enquire?
How about, if you went to the flower and just sat with it?Observed it for what it REALLY was? Felt it for what it REALLY was? Attempted to get a deeper sense and understanding of what nourished it? Of what nourished you?
How about you saw it as something that was entirely outside of your control. And more importantly, asking yourself why you would even want to control it?
How about you gave it your presence, attention, realness and love? Without ever attempting to capture or tame it?
How about acknowledging the value and nourishment the flower has for your entire life, in a real way...Dropping the cool-act. And through this acknowledging, you see how beautifully the flower responds when you water it with your powerful energy.
You would begin to see the roots of that flower digging deeper and deeper. Expanding wider and wider. And rising up in reverence to meet the vastness of your integrity .
I invite you to ask yourself “what am I watering this beautiful woman with?” Because many of you guys are using straight up battery acid! Then you come to me asking “Chris, why my girl all crazy and shit?”
Bringing realness, clarity and deep truth to our mishandled human condition. Here to assist you in a REAL way, without the fluff. Pointing you to your magnificence. Relentlessly committed to being here, embodied.