Preface: In the following article I use the word “fuck” somewhat regularly, as an expression for s€x/making love...
I want to clarify that when I say “fuck”, I am referring to the wielding of a conscious cock, and present union. Where there is an intertwining, a meeting, a rapturing of heart and s€x - A deep embodied nourishment. This article may feel crass in some of its expressions, which is entirely on purpose, in order to land it. If it feels of truth for you, and you are courageous enough, share it. We need to understand some very simple things, more than ever right now. Thank you, and enjoy.
There is a certain type of magic that comes fourth from a well fuckd womxn. She is obvious and alive in her ever sensitized being - carrying a magic that transforms and embellishes everything she touches upon...including your life. A well fuckd womxn glides above all. But, it is rare to see!
It’s another silent crime which stays undeclared, due to societal conditioning, and how poorly we treat women’s health. There is no public healthcare system for the poorly fuckd womxn, yet she must deal with all the dis-ease which this state of neglect creates, on her own.
Being well fuckd, supports and steers a woman back to her heart in ways she may have never even had contact with before. It discharges ethereal & cellular toxicity. It frees her from neurosis and being locked in her head center. It grounds her into her heart & body. It keeps her in connection with her pulsing orgasmic aliveness and spirit, which she needs to be of connected health. Period.
Deep s€x, is medicine to the feminine.
Conscious cock, is medicine to the feminine.
Being loved upon, is medicine to the feminine.
We need to stop having such cautious taboos around this topic, so that women can finally be supported in moving towards what she needs, and requesting it, unapologetically. As to not do so risks her health and sanity. The more we call it out, the more it can be known and supported.
My intention for speaking to this, is in the hopes that it may grant her further permission to stop wasting her precious life force with men who haven’t figured out, or who are unwilling to support her orgasmic aliveness.
The other issue we face lays with the women who have never actually experienced being well fuckd...ever. There are many. And it is an absolute tragedy.
This is deeply unfortunate, as this woman hears what I say, but she dis acknowledges its importance...as you cannot truly validate the importance of that which you have never experienced. Sure, she moves around in her life and gets by, but do we really want that? Just to get by?
I realize what I share can be quit triggering to many, but these things need to be communicated.
She MUST realize how drastically important this area of her life is. And how it has the ability to transform every other aspect of her life. She must give it its due priority, and actively seek.
I see many, both men and women, ignoring or bypassing their s€x. They are in their spiritual process, and they work with everything...other than the single most powerful engagement we have on offer to our spirit. S€x!
Avoiding our s€x and intimacy, with ourselves or others, is missing out on the 80percent.
I have never met a powerfully embodied human who was not deeply actualized and expressed in their s€x. Never. It is such a huge part.
S€x brings up so much energy, so quickly. Quicker than anything else. For this reason, it also triggers, quicker than anything else. What a gift!
**TRANSMISSION FOR THE MEN**
There are cornerstones of a mans development, and sexual understanding/implementation is a huge part of the greater whole.
Really learning how to be with a woman’s body and soul is a true art form, which requires deep listening and a commitment to presence. Learning to be and to stay present with her, is where our healing exists.
You must know, that an under-fucked/poorly-fucked woman will have so much unmet & pent-up energy ricocheting within, that she will make it a full time hobby to be an absolute pain in your ass; On a conscious level she means no harm, but backed-up energy has a tendency for reckless engagement & vandalism as a desperate means of relief. On an unconscious level, she is attempting to punish you for the ways in which you are unwilling or unable to love and show up for her. Neither is right or wrong, it’s simply the way it is.
Realize, women are profoundly more s€xual than men, her appetite and capacity for cosmic orgasmicness is at least 100x more than our male bodies. This isn’t something I have randomly pulled out of the air. This is coming from my direct experience of assisting many women over the years with energetic initiation. She is a volcano of sexual energy, (yes, even the apparent quiet & timid ones), and there is absolutely no comparison between her capacity and yours. Your dealing with a beautifully wild & insatiable love monster, who’s staple is conscious-cock with heart.
If you are not experiencing this volcanicness from your woman, then you are not sparking her energy the way in which you could be. Start figuring it out. Please.
For the men who assume women don’t want to be “fucked” and she only wants soppy gooey-ooey types of flaccid love...spend more time around women, so they can educate you.
It’s less about what you are doing, and more about where the doing is coming from in you. She wants to FEEL your consciousness piercing her soul. Whether you are spanking her, or whispering sweet nothings in her ear as you deeply penetrate her, it makes no difference. What DOES matter - is your level of presence and energetic connection you have with her in that moment. She wants to be seen by you. Otherwise, you have not made contact with her.
She wants her heart to be fucked open, via your love, your cock, your consciousness, and your firm connection with heart. This is done via your capacity for presence.
She wants to feel your reverence and honor between her thighs. This is done via your capacity for presence.
She wants to feel your Godliness, and she longs to drip down upon it, feeding your deepest essence with her nectar. She wants to dance for god! You connect with god, through your capacity for presence.
Do not underestimate the necessity of figuring this out. It will grant you a very different experience of this life.
A world where every woman is a well fuckd womxn(whatever that means for her); That’s the kind of world I dream of. Imagine the beauty and embellishment of such a planet. Imagine the unconditional levels of love. Imagine the juiciness. Imagining the respect and reverence.
“No Chris, it’s not that simple and straightforward. We are more complicated than that” - said no well fuckd womxn, ever!
Woman has so much to bring to this planet once she is loved upon and supported. She is here as a powerful service to love and life. But we have spent history mishandling her. Raping and pillaging her resources, controlling her. Assuming that she is limited. She is not limited. Woman is entirely unlimited, when she is of aliveness. Powerful s€x is a method of stoking the fires of life within. It keeps us alight. Ablaze.
Please don’t ignore it, or you too will wither with time.
Here here, to the well fuckd womxn!
Bringing realness, clarity and deep truth to our mishandled human condition. Here to assist you in a REAL way, without the fluff. Pointing you to your magnificence. Relentlessly committed to being here, embodied.