I share my message in a easy to read, understand, and apply as possible kind of way. Right now, in this post, I am going deeper, for me, and for the guys who are 'there' and can relate/understand. If you cant grasp it, that is fine, you will.
- There is a step up from speaking everything.
That is, saying it with your vibe and speaking it with your energy. This is far more potent than relying on any words. Words are training wheels you must start with. It is essential for alignment to begin authentic and honest expression of your core desires, and sexuality.
In truth, you let her know everything before you even speak, and while you speak, and how you speak.
All I verbally said is "Hey...you look, super French?"
But really, she isn't listening to my words. She is listening to all of me. She is listening to who I am being. Feeling me in relation to her. Not on purpose, but because this is how humans operate unconsciously. We have intuition, instinct, and gut reactions.
She hears my words say "What are you reading?" But She FEELS more beautiful than she has ever seen herself, through me. More excited while being more at ease. More heard. More seen. While being held in a patient and open space, doused in my unapologetic desire to explore her.
Not pushing. Not forcing. But Sharing and allowing. Inviting. Wanting, not needing. Im admiring. Im exploring.
I am not plundering. Im not here to get. Im here to explore.
Most men, don't have patience.
When you rush...you forcefully delay her desire to surrender to your gifts. Why would a man who is full need to rush, anything, ever? Ego comes to mind. Your desperate need completely pushes her away.
Seduction is not about baiting her into liking you. Seduction is about sitting so fully in yourself and your unattached/ accepted desire for her, that you become INSPIRING to her.
You, being you, in your body, INSPIRES her to want to feel you deeper inside of her. She wants to fill herself with your fullness.
I remember the days I would read broken advice on how to get girls to have sex with me(i have since come to learn that girls already want to have sex with me, without having to do anything) and how to break through 'LMR'. The results? Women would either change their mind and not want to sleep with me, OR it would be a very long time until they chose to do so.
The moment I chose to give that all up and stop 'trying', is the moment women started to drag me into my own bedroom and start to remove their clothes for me, very quickly after meeting them.
Sadly most men of current society feel so confused, desperate, and lonely, that they look for women to penetrate THEM. They switch the poles. They try very hard. They need the woman to make them happy. They need the woman to fill them up. They need the women to fuck THEM. It does not work like that. Know your role.
If you are not at a place of being fully in yourself and your life, why would she want you inside of her? Or near her for that matter.
Start working on that. Then, balance it with practically showing up in your life, leaning into tension.
If you get this and it helps you, Im happy. Well, i'm already happy, but it makes me even happier.
To downplay the importance of everything I just said, here is a cat being a unicorn.
Bringing realness, clarity and deep truth to our mishandled human condition. Here to assist you in a REAL way, without the fluff. Pointing you to your magnificence. Relentlessly committed to being here, embodied.