Men, she needs to feel you! She needs to feel your maleness rolling through her body. Caressing her sensuality, and arousing it, simply by how you are sitting within your own self.
I received a wonderfully illuminating quote, from a woman I just got finished doing a phone session with: “It’s crazy how I can feel you over the phone, but then I can’t even feel a man who is physically in front of me, or physically in me”. The reason her words jumped out at me so much, is because it speaks to the general quality of how men allow themselves to show up in life...distracted. Not present. Lacking life-force.
Men, she needs to feel you! She needs to feel your maleness rolling through her body. Caressing her sensuality, and arousing it, simply by how you are sitting within your own self. You can speak all the best words, but if you are energetically vacant, there is nothing arousing about how you are showing up.
This is not rocket science. It is incredibly simplistic. But it will call fourth your ability to be still. Your ability to feel yourself. Your ability to engage consciously with life and your emotions.
Being present is everything. Because if you are not actually here, she has nothing to open to. She has nobody to dance with. Nobody to follow. Nobody to reflect.
It’s vitally important to your male intelligence that you show up in your presence. You must understand your natural posture is to be deeply arousing to the feminine. Just like her natural posture is to be arousing you to action. Your presence needs to be for yourself first. Then, she actually has the opportunity to taste what you are bringing, and decide wether it feels magnificent and safe enough for her to open to.
(As a side note, women, stop choosing to be around idiocy. Because before you know it, you will be one of them. Be aware of the quality of man you be around. Call him to presence if you have no other choice.)
Most men attempt to engage with a woman analytically from a severely heady place. Laying his best word skillz on her... Expect to receive the same headiness in return for your disconnected efforts.
She exists far more in the sensual realm. Tune into her. Feel. Feel. Feel. You’ll be amazed at how beautiful your relating can become, when you place your mind to the side, even for a moment.
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